A friend asked me to do a couple guest posts on her blog and one of her series is, "A Day in the Life of..." I thought it would be fun and kind of comical at the same time. A dear friend described my life once as sometimes being a high wire act at the top of the circus tent with me and the kids flying everywhere and Jon hanging on for dear life. I laughed and everyone else chuckled because it's often totally true. And, chances are, you'll find that to be totally true of this day I recorded. So here goes.... a day in the life of us.... ;)
Friday, September 18, 2015
6:15 AM- My alarm goes off and I think to myself, "Are you serious? It's morning already?" I think this every morning, and every morning, it's true.
6:45 AM- I finally dragged myself out of bed and went to make my must-have morning cup of coffee. I've NEVER been a coffee drinker. Ever. I hate the stuff. The smell? Awesome. The taste? Disgusting. I survived my first two children without it. Then Penelope happened and I became a coffee drinker, but only with a decent dose of flavored creamer. I sat down on the couch, drank my coffee, sent out some emails and checked a few orders for my Younique business, and read my Bible.
Before I go any further, I need to make a disclaimer before this blog post or anything specific in this blog post unintentionally causes it to join the ranks of the "mommy guilt blog post" or the "be the all-star Christian woman" blog post. And I'll start first with the above description and picture that might make it seem like the greatest moms and Christians get up early, before everyone else, even with small children, and read their Bible and pray, and, if you do not do the same, you are a failure. Those are all lies. Here is the truth.
1. The classic Christian instagram photo. I did not take the above Christian social media picture of a Bible passage marked up with notes and my cup of coffee to "discreetly" make sure you are aware that I am a great Christian by waking up early and reading my Bible. It's not like that at all. I took the above picture because I'm supposed to take pictures of my "A Day in the Life of...." and on this day, at that time of day, I was drinking my coffee and reading my Bible. I actually laughed out loud while staging the above picture because it's just a classic in the Christian community. And if I'm honest, this doesn't happen every day. And there's grace for that and Jesus doesn't love me more or approve of me less depending on what kind of day it is. Thank goodness!!!
2. I am not a stellar mom or stellar Christian who rises before the sun because it's more godly. I get up before my kids so no one dies in the wee hours of the morning. ;) It's as simple as that. HA! I'm not one of those morning "mom and kid bed snugglers." I used to feel really guilty about it because, you know what I'm talking about... the social media posts from the moms with the emotional sentimental statement about your babies climbing into bed with you in the morning when they wake up and everyone snuggling together and ending the undercover giggles and snuggles with a selfie posted to social media. UMMMM.......NO! I get up before my kids so I don't kill them when they jolt me awake in the most uncomfortable ways possible.
I've never slept well in my entire life and so I almost never feel rested in the morning no matter how many hours of sleep I get. My kids coming bounding through my door and forcibly waking me up with their stinky breath and legs and feet kicking everywhere is not my idea of fun. If I'm honest it just makes me really annoyed and sometimes very angry. So in order to start my day off well with my kids, I've had to start getting up before them. That way I'm awake, already drinking my coffee, and in a right state of mind for their sleepy, stinky breathed little faces to come snuggle me as I'm doing whatever morning work I'm doing. Snuggles? I LOVE them. But not forcible snuggles in my bed, in the morning, before I'm even relatively coherent. It doesn't bode well for anyone involved. ;) And my babies? I LOOOOOOVE them, and if you try to guilt me into this activity by telling me how much I will miss them when they are gone, I will hunt you down, and kill you. ;)
Ok, now back to my original post. One soapbox down. There may be more to come... who knows!
So I get up roughly around 6:30 AM. My kids aren't allowed out of their beds until 7:30 AM (although according to the clock in their room they think it's 7:00 AM muah ha ha). Mekonen comes out first and we snuggle on the couch together. See! I do snuggle. A lot. Just not at 6:30 AM in my bed. He went over and picked up Mary Poppins and asked me to read to him. So we laid on the couch and I read two chapters of Mary Poppins. (We are LOVING books lately, especially Mekonen and read-a-louds. He's been really getting into good stories and it's been fun, so we are trying to read a little each day whenever we have a few minutes. Even if it's just a couple pages)! I forgot to get a picture when he came out so I got one after the book and told him to pose grumpy (because well, he usually wakes up grumpy). hahaha.
Evie joined us partway through reading Mary Poppins on the couch. The kids fought over who was taking up more of the snuggle room. Classic.
Here's how Eve ALWAYS emerges from her room- stinky blanket held right up to her nose.
7:45/8:00 AM- This one of my favorite times of the day- getting Pip out of her bed. Even if she was screaming her head off seconds before (which, she usually is), as soon as you open that door, she is all smiles and squeals and jumping up and down. Who wouldn't want to be greeted with such enthusiasm! ;)
Her new way of protesting her crib.
9:00 AM- After about telling them fifteen times, Mekonen and Evie go get themselves dressed and brush their teeth. Even though we homeschool, I do try to have them "get themselves together" most days. Although yes, there are times, where we laze around in pajamas all day.
After he gets dressed, Mekonen starts on his daily notebook for school. These are all those school calendar type activities that teachers usually do on a big bulletin board in the morning. But we don't have space for it and Penelope would tear it all down anyway. So we have a compact binder version and he loves it. He fills in the calendar, weather, number of the day, counting exercises, handwriting practice, map drawing, and various math activities.
Mekonen works on his notebook while I go around getting myself ready to start the day...getting dressed, throwing some laundry in the washer, making myself breakfast, etc.
And ready for a peak at some of my OCD things? My day does not start off well if it doesn't start off organized. So when I wake up in the morning it's preferable to have no dirty dishes in the sink and all kid toys put away in their right place, and no piles of crap all over my house. ;) Fresh start to the day. I can't be the only one like this, right? (And yep, it'll be the thing my kids bring up in therapy when they're in their 20's. I'm okay with that). And yes, I have gotten SOOO much better about letting things go and letting things be a hot mess into the next day. So much better. But it's still my preference to start off each day with everything in order.
And my whole house could be falling down and look like a tornado ran through it, but if I can make our bed, I get the feeling that I can do anything. ;) haha!!!
9:30 AM- I sit down at the table with Evie and do a little bit of school with her. Today it was AB patterns for math.
While she does that, Penelope does what Penelope does best...causes a tornado. Every single day she dumps out the entire container of foam blocks and then one by one, takes out every other toy in the bucket. This is what the dining room floor looks like whenever Penelope is awake.
And this is how you can almost always find her...blanket in hand, fingers in her mouth.
12:00 PM Lunchtime! I had no sandwich bread, so hot dogs it was! Evie is coloring while eating lunch. She is ALWAYS coloring, scribbling, and doodling. Mekonen usually joins in as well. They ALWAYS fight over who sits at "the head of the table." ALWAYS. Even though we have instituted the policy months ago that no one gets to sit there, they STILL yell about it every. single. day. Evie sat in the spot for the picture. Haha.
Perfect timing. As soon as I got out of the shower, this one started yelling. Again, my favorite part of the day. My own personal cheering session twice a day. Love it. We played a few rounds of peek-a-boo and "where's Penelope" where she covers her face with her blanket and squeals with delight when you pull it off.
And right before I raced to the bathroom to dry my hair on the limited minutes before Pip decided she was D.O.N.E. (with lunch and life) I caught a glimpse of this baby profile looking out the window. I prayed she stayed still until I got the camera app on my phone opened, and called myself crazy as I thought, "This is my favorite age. We should have ten kids."
1:30 PM- Back to the bathroom to put on make-up and dry my hair. Did you know you have to dry curly hair upside down? Well, I couldn't get a selfie that way. I tried. It didn't work. So here ya go.
Apparently, the hair-drying took too long and this is what I found: a mad and distraught Penelope who was D.O.N.E. (with lunch and life). Looks like she took it out on her bow.
I cleaned her up, plopped her onto the floor, and sat down to do a few minutes of work with Younique. (And shameless plug for Younique- it's the new, younger, cooler version of Mary Kay. haha. Sorry Naomi! With naturally based products for this generation of "clean living"and has the most amazing 3D mascara. It really is awesome. I started selling it earlier this year to help fund our adoption. But what I found is that I am actually making decent money ALL online and ALL from home, while running this crazy circus of a life. Just this day alone, while I was doing all that you saw above, I made a decent chunk of cash that went right into the kids' fall clothes account, and gave me extra cash to hit up chick-fil-a later with a friend).
While I was posting in my online Younique parties, it was oddly silent. I turned around to find Penelope doing this. You might not want to know that I continued to let her do that while I finished my post and wrote an email. 3rd child. How is she still alive? (No children were harmed in the writing of this blog post).
The big kids are still running their hearts out in the backyard. I shooed Penelope away from the plug and did the dishes. No, we do not have a dish washer. Yes, feel free to tell my husband he should get me one. Dishes- it's one of those things that make me sane or INSANE. I cannot handle coming home to a sink full of dishes. It is the most defeating feeling ever. So whenever possible, I do the dishes before leaving the house.
Penelope threw a huge fit because I wouldn't let her throw the clean laundry into the toilet. #worstparentever
But, we had to take a selfie for this blog post. So after sweating my face off from getting everyone in the car, and putting back all the toys in the house, and retrieving said child's shoes, we all smiled for the selfie, because 1) it's social media. We have to pretend we have it all together, and 2) we were going to Target. Who doesn't smile at a trip to Target?!?!?!
And as we are driving down the road Evie says, "Mommy, why is your car going faster than everybody else's?"
After accidentally hitting the curb with the cart on the way out of the store, which caused Mekonen to fall off the cart onto the ground (like literally, flat out laying on the ground, scraped up elbow), and Evie went tumbling over top of him, we managed to get back into the van.
We didn't come out with anything on my list.
5:00 PM- We are back in the van. I call Jon to see if he'll be home for dinner. When he said no because he had a meeting, I did a celebratory fist pump in the air because I decided I was not cooking. Even the thought of throwing frozen chicken nuggets in the microwave when we got home was overwhelming. So I texted a friend and we decided it was time for Chick-Fil-A.
While the kids got buckled and we waited the 5 minutes for the air conditioning to turn on in the van, I checked my email and to my surprise we got new pictures of our boy in Ethiopia!! I was sooo excited. But, my phone battery was on 3% and I couldn't download the rest of his pictures and I didn't have a phone charger. So I went to the gas station and bought a $5 car charger. Shockingly, it worked perfectly and we got to see four new pictures of our sweet little guy. The kids were super excited about it.
And here's our little man. How cute is he busting out of his pink button-up shirt. I can't show his full face online until we pass court and the balloons are covering up that cutie pie in the corner of the picture. :) This email of pictures MADE MY DAY!
5:30 PM- We met up with friends for dinner at Chick-Fil-A! yay!!!
Penelope throwing a fit on the floor of the Chick-Fil-A play-place because I wouldn't let her drag her blanket around the nasty germ infested indoor playground. And yes, she slams her forehead on the ground when she's ticked.
And Lauren captured this photo as I was coming down the slide from retrieving my one year old who successfully climbed UP the huge twisty slide of the playground. She thought this was wildly funny seeing me have to come up and get her.
7:30 PM- There was no ability to document the events of getting from Chick-Fil-A to bed. Circus, I tell you. It's a circus. I let them run around the yard for a bit when we got home while I got Penelope out of the car, etc. We did the routine- quick baths tonight, pajamas, vitamins, stories, Bible reading, dump them in bed, and turn on Jesus Storybook audio. Every night the kids listen to an audio book and it's been a fun tradition for them. And every night Penelope climbs into Evie's bed to join the fun.
I came out and literally fell onto the couch. But I only stayed there for about ten seconds because otherwise, I wouldn't have gotten back up. Because we had chick-fil-a no dinner dishes!! wahoo!!! And because it's Friday, I didn't bother getting the kids school stuff for the next day together in their workboxes. So I just went around gathering laundry from the day, swept the dining room and kitchen floors real quick, and plopped on the couch to wait for Jon to get home from his meeting. I tinkered around on Pinterest and did some Younique work, and stared at the clean laundry baskets in the bathroom that I could see from the couch. There was a slight burst of motivation to fold it all. Then I was like, "Nah." And I left it there.
9:45 PM Jon got home from his meeting and we spent the rest of the evening just hanging out together and unwinding from the day. (Don't you love my vague ending to our Friday night?) Haha!
12:00 AM- We crashed into bed around midnight, only to start all over again in the morning! But at least, it was Saturday!
So, a high wire act at the top of the circus tent with me and the kids flying everywhere? Yep. I think that's it.